Why do we enter relationships?

The unbounded end all of relationships

"Unless there is some relationship or connection, nobody goes anywhere" - One great Fakir of his time

As a general area of interest this question very often whirrs in my mind. Unintentionally, abstractly so many a times- What is the end objective of a relationship

Over the many years that I have lived I have experienced multitude of relationships, some that were meant to be, and many that I chose to have. Relationship with my father, mother, sisters, friends, bosses, subordinates and so on and so forth.

My many years of pondering, observing and reading has led to the below inferences

1)      We always seek out: I had read long time back that the book chooses you and not the other way round. In the same way we attract the right person at the right time to have a relationship for that season, reason or a lifetime. Several hypothesis and theories even claim that even before birth in our spiritual form we choose the wombs to settle out our karmic debts. So at any given point in time we are always with the right people or the right set of people. There are no ‘wrong’ relationships, we always attract what we should.

2)      We are constantly gathering wisdom: Even with the toughest and most unreasonable bosses or teachers or anyone in a hierarchical position I have always learnt. Learnt to become more patient, to stretch myself. If nothing else at times I have garnered the ability to tolerate fools and yes to able to point out the next fool instantly when I spot one. Each one has contributed to my mental wisdom to have a sojourn in passing easy quick judgments and jump to conclusions

3)      People change over time : My ability of abstract observation even in the most trying situations has led me to perceive that devils change to angels as time passes and angels change to devils and then angels again. The same lover who tortured you years ago, becomes your savior in next few years. The same uncle who always said the right things at right times turns into an abusive freak. With uninvolved observation you subtly gather that humans are perfectly playing their assigned roles and behaviors. Going ahead we can even completely forgive the ones who tortured our souls at ‘that’ time after all they were just playing out what was meant to be.

4)      The ability to influence: Unknowingly so I have affected many lives and many have affected mine- even the so called evil ones. Not everyone have the gift of accurate communication and expression to pass this knowledge to me. But I can just see that. I feel gifted and thank my creator to bless me with the ability to enrich others. All this only through the medium of relationships.

Finally I conclude with

There is power in learning to love someone unconditionally. It enables the lover to develop and grow emotionally. It removes blockages from one's own heart, enabling it to wander, explore, discover and become inspired. As the lover loves unconditionally, they become able to move past instilled beliefs, traditional concepts, and influenced behaviors.

Ultimately, unconditional love is about relinquishing control and discarding any expectations. Simply accept love, give love and be surprised by where the force may lead you (both!). It's probably to a far greater place than you could ever have imagined

No relationship is futile..Feel Liberated today..